Understanding The Mind And Habits Of Men

Are you the type who has trouble understanding men? The first question you may need to ask yourself is, is your trouble actually with men in general or does it resolves around insecurities and doubts you hold about yourself. Another thing is, are you generalizing all your perceptions of men based on your own personal experiences and the beliefs and opinions you have formed.

Woman tend to form the beliefs that men are more interested in the physical side of things, woman are emotionally driven and they come from the heart, and yes men are programmed to reproduce but then so are woman otherwise humanity would cease to be. 

You maybe surprised to know that beneath a mans ego, there also lies a being who has feelings, who has a heart and who want's generally the same happy loving relationship as woman seek.

Before you can form better relationships with men perhaps you may also need to concentrate on building your own self esteem and confidence, especially if use negative self talk with terms like,

  •  I am no good at this or that
  •  I am hopeless with men 
  •  Everything keeps going wrong for me  
  •  My relationships never work out  
  •  My life's a mess and nothing goes right for me

 Learn How To Love Yourself

If you are too critical and harsh about yourself than that's going to reflect on your relationships with men. If your happy and confident with yourself than that will rub off on your partner, or it will help improve your chances with finding that ideal guy for your.

So if your accustomed too self defeating talk and ways then it's time for a change in your attitude, try not to negatively generalize yourself and your perceived flaws, also try to avoid generalizing and categorizing all men as being the same all the time, other wise you run the risk of stereo-typing all men. 

Life is all about learning new skills and information and working out where we have gone wrong, just because at the moment you have not had the success you would of liked does not mean you cannot have it in the future.

So instead of focusing on the things you think you are not very good at, start to turn your attention on too what your good at. You need to create a positive self image of yourself, if you search and become aware then you will notice that your already good at some things and you have many good traits about yourself.

Begin to love yourself and focus only on your unique qualities and not your so called faults and past mistakes or misfortunes, no one is perfect and no one gets it right first time. The difference between those who do get it right is, they accept there past errors and they try to improve on them, where as the negative type beats themselves up and won't let things go.

Once you shift yourself into a positive good feeling energy things will start to fall into place and you will also get better at all the things you wrongly thought you were not very good at if you can keep the positive momentum going.

When Your Feeling Better About Yourself You Can Approach Where Your Going Wrong

Start to do more of the things that you enjoy, when you feel good life will start to treat you good. Everything resolves around our perceptions, if you have formed negative perceptions about yourself or around men and you keep focused on the bad then that will keep you stuck in a negative place inside your mind and things will not get better in your outside life. 

This means instead of going on too enjoy a happy enriched and satisfying life with the man of your dreams you will be full of resentment towards men which will repel them away from you. 

On the other hand if you start to see the positive potentials that are abundant too you, instead of seeing the negative then your fortunes will change for the better and you will experience more of those feel good emotions that come with optimism and positive statements and intentions.

But if you keep on making these negative statements about your own insecurities and doubts then you will carry feeling bad. Once you feel better about yourself and your future then you can begin to work on where you were going wrong.

Because your future will depend on your perceptions, your attitude and the actions you do or do not take. The first place too start is to let go of what has happened otherwise your never going too move forwards. Then begin to identify where you think you have been going wrong and work out what approach or changes you need to make.

Perhaps you have had trouble finding men or when you do find them maybe you struggle to keep them. Deal with each problem area at a time, if you have trouble meeting a guy, then ask yourself what you can do to improve on that area, if your mind comes up with an answer then work on improving that specific area, of course you may need to frequent more places where men hang out or look on social media sites or reputable dating agencies.

It can also pay you too boost your confidence and work on your social skills, learning more, watching more TV, especially the programs and things men like and taking an interest in a wider scoop of interests and knowledge can give you more things too talk about.

If you have already met a man and you want to hang onto him, then try and work out where you went wrong the previous times and try not to repeat the same mistake. Sometimes our imagination can make things up to conform with your suspicions and your inner beliefs, but your imagination does not always represent the truth and actual facts, so be aware of this.

Avoid arguments if you can, because it is far better to walk away, or talk things through than it is to have a heated argument. Love will blossom, flourish and continue when we learn to understand each other and we are considerate, thoughtful, nice, kind and appreciative. 

Many woman have insecurities about themselves, insecurity can destroy a good relationship and it is one of the biggest relationship destroyers. The basis of a successful relationship is to be fine with being by yourself first, don't come across as being desperate and too pushy. 

Instead of trying to pursue and chase men, focus more on just talking to them and enjoying their company and having fun yourself and see where things go. Because when we try to hard, we too hit it off with somebody we create more anxiety and nervousness and we act unnatural.

Why Women Freak Out Around A Man & Unknowingly Do Things Which Might Push Him Away

Why women freak out around a man & unknowingly do things which push him away. Do you know what happens when a woman goes through a difficult situation with a man?

She keeps freaking out, you cannot force somebody into your way of thinking. This is how the cycle runs. A woman finds herself in a difficult situation with a man. 

She doesn't understand why he's doing what he's doing, sometimes you have to look at things from the other persons point of view or at least talk and listen. When a woman becomes highly emotional she can then try too do what she assumes is the right or best thing but it often that approach doesn't work.

This can then leave her feeling stuck & eventually the emotional arousal pushes her into over reacting. You can never resolve an issue until your in a calm and clear focused states. It's no surprise why so many women are leading a life of silent desperation. The point I am trying to make here is that when women drive themselves completely nuts by freaking out over and over again, it messes them up completely over time.

But it doesn't stop here. In fact! Under such a situation a woman ca unknowingly do things which push a man further away.

Here are the two most common routes women take.

1- They first try to convince a man. 

2- And when the first option doesn't work, they try to argue their way into his head.

I don't know why but women have this inner belief that if they can just explain their situation to a man he will somehow get it, because It doesn't really work that way. You can never make him understand your situation when you try hard to drill your point into his head. In fact! it can have an adverse negative affect, the harder you try, the further he will pull himself.

And when convincing him doesn't work, they take the second route, which is to argue or fight and finally when things get really bad, they use blame and guilt to get their point across.

Let me explain this with a good example. Let's say your man is starting to get distant & you fear that maybe he is planning to leave you. You first try to understand why he is getting distant, but things aren't making any sense, as a result you freak out, your imagination can then start to play tricks on you as it gives it's representation of the situation, but can you really trust your imagination.

Next, you try to talk to him about it, you say things like - Honey! I don't know why you are avoiding me like this, what have I done? Are you planning to leave me? Have you found someone else? I need answers.

And you still don't get the answers you need and as a result your anxiety is starting to turn into anger. You feel that you deserve answers from him.

And in the process you say things like. I am sick & tired of not getting answers from you. You aren't pulling your share of weight in the relationship, I feel like I am doing all the work. You only care about yourself.

This can be major mistake which can literally shake the foundation of a relationship. When you use this approach a man only feels attacked and his first reaction is to get even more distant to avoid confrontation. It's important to understand that you can't hold a gun to his head & make him get it. You are following an utterly hopeless strategy if you think you can.

There is a better way - There are things you can do & say which will naturally make a man want to open up to you, give you all the love you need and be devoted to you for the rest of his life. 

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