Surround Yourself With Positive People And Become Like Them

When people who have a strong accent which is related to where they live move to another area of the country or the world then in time they lose their indigenous accent and they start to speak like the local people. 

This is just one example how the people around you can have a strong influence on you.

So if you want to do well in life then the best thing you can do is to surround yourself with positive and influential people, the sort of people who are going to motivate and inspire you, you want friend that back you and uplift you, the last thing we need is to be surrounded by people who are going to drag you down. 

What other people say, how they act, think and behave can have a massive impact on your mood, what you become and even how you act and think. 

Start to mix with positive people, steer clear from the negative types because they will drag you down and drain you of your energy, when your constantly around positive people then soon you will become one of those like mined positive people. 

As you grow more and more positive more positive opportunities will come into your experience. 

Life punishes negative people with pain and misery and it rewards the positive type with joy, optimism and fulfilment. 

Positivity is contagious and the more you surround yourself with positive minded people the more you will develop their optimistic outlook on life as you start to develop more positive ways of thinking and better ways of perceiving the world.

 You may have heard the saying you will become like the people you socialize with you so it's important to surround yourself with positive people. 

What other people say, how they act, think and behave can have a massive impact on your mood, what you become and even how you act and think. 

You may have heard the saying you will become like the people you socialize with you so it's important to surround yourself with positive people.

Do Not Follow The Sheep Because They Do Not Know Where There Heading 

Most people follow the masses, they tend to think and behave like the masses, why they do this is because they don't want to stand out from the crowd. 

People's tend to choose their beliefs and idea's based on logic, this is how most people see their lives, if only they would stop for a minute to look at life through a different perspective.

The trouble with logic it keeps you stuck in the same life you are living now. Make your own decisions and carve out your own decisions, because when we follow the sheep we live like the sheep, the wolf does not care what the sheep think, that's why he his more powerful and stronger. 

The great inventors and the most successful people go beyond logic, logic told the Wright brothers that humans are meant to fly, if they had listened we would not be able to fly all around like we can today.

 Negative people can drain your energy and even drag you down and make you feel depressed, they can convince you to give up on your goals, their negative suggestions can influence your mind and your perceptions. 

If you are trying to create a better life for yourself and your friends and even family tell you things like you can't do it you can buy into that and it can prevent you from becoming successful, we can tend to believe what others say.  

Even if you go ahead and pursue your goals then things start to go not so well, your friends again can tell you I told you so and instead of working through your problem you give up. 

The negative influence other people can have on you can destroy your new found optimism, some people are even jealous, deep down they don't want you to move forward. If anybody tries to pull you backwards, ditch them because any real friend would encourage and support you.

 Millionaires and successful people mix with like minded people, their positive and vibrant energy can rub off on you, they enthusiasm can energize you, motivate you, empower you and inspire you. 

When you surround yourself with positive people you will start to see the world from their perspective, in time you will think like them and take positive actions like them.

We cannot always choose the people we work with, if you cannot manage to avoid negative people and we cannot always pick the people we work with then the next best thing is to ignore what they say when they are being pessimistic because you don't want to allow what their saying into your head, people's opinions can have a big impact on our emotions and beliefs.

Negative People Live Negative Lives

We all go through tough times, when you are facing your own troubles the last thing you want is to be surrounded by negative people. 

There is nothing wrong with helping or listening to other people's problems either, but you must not let them over burden you.

When your positive and optimistic your energy can lift others, have you ever been in a good mood and you then you start talking or mixing with negative people and within minutes your good state of mind and body has transformed down to their levels.

When you feel negative and down you lose motivation you become uninspired and without motivation you will do and achieve absolutely nothing. 

Negative people live negative and miserable lives, they having nothing going on in their lives because they have no motivation or inspiration, all they do is moan and criticize other people. 

Negative people never really have any goals, they done even know what they want to do with their lives, they blame the world and everything else for their current situation they find themselves, they play the typical victim mentality and guess what when you hang around negative minded people you too may find yourself with little hope or direction.

Positive and passionate people are highly motivated, they have already achieved what they want so they are the people you need to listen too, they lead by example. 

Their attitude is, I can do this, they have the belief that they can achieve anything they want and they won't quit until they succeed. 

When you start associating or listening to positive people or reading inspiring articles or books you will finally start to begin to believe in yourself. 

Yes even positive and optimistic people have their down times and problems to overcome but they don't stop down or deflated for very long, they mope for a day or two but they soon pick themselves back up with the attitude I am going to do even better and they fight their way through them the challenges.

If your feeling down, feel the emotion but give it a time limit, tell yourself I am going to allow myself two days or so to be like this but after the two days up I am going to pick myself up and feel better, the same applies if you develop a problem give yourself a time period, take a break from what your doing and tell yourself I will give myself x amount of days off and then I am going to fix the problem.

Surrounding yourself with positive people will help you to think positive, inspirational mentor Jim Rhon once quoted " You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with" Negative people try and discourage you by using the beliefs and pessimistic attitude that have kept them stuck in a life of failure and mediocre.

Set your mind to what you want and stick with it, surround yourself with positive and successful people and one day you will become like them too. 

Believe in yourself and surround yourself with people who will also believe in you and what your doing, the type who will encourage and support you through the bad times and congratulate you on your achievements




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