- Deeply relaxing
- Keeping active
- Eating a healthy diet
- Being mindful
- Your health,
- Your quality of life
- Your well-being
- Other people
- Addictive substances
- External things
- Chronic stress
- Obsessive thoughts and behaviors
- Health related issues
- Tiredness, insonmia and fatigue
- Bad memories
- Emotional trauma's
- Emotional suffering
- Feel calm and balanced
- Experience joy and happiness
- Enjoy the moment
- Reach your highest performance levels
- Be yourself
- You can give in and become a victim of your past
- You can refuse to be a slave to your past and you can give it all you have got to heal your wounds
- You have not got to try and forget
- You have not go to deal with your past
- You have not got to find closure
- You have not got to eliminate your feelings
- You have not got to suppress or numb your feelings
- You have not got to fight with or try to defeat your mind and body
- You have not got to get over anything
- There is no need to hold onto your past
- Mental state
- Emotional state
- Physical state
- Don't react or judge
- Don't run with your emotions
- Don't fight or resist them
- Observing your mind and body
- Allow your mind to carry on reliving your bad memory
- Feel the feelings and let the feelings rise up through your body and away
- Let the thoughts and feelings be
- You can carry on living a life of emotional suffering, limitations and stress
- You can motivate yourself to change your feelings and you can go on to live a wonderful and successful life
- If you think like a victim you will remain the victim
- If you think that there is nothing you can do, then you will do nothing
- If you think and you believe that you can overcome your bad experience, then you will get there
- You don't want
- You try to forget about
- You try to numb or blockout
- Lack of focus
- Unwanted and repetitive thoughts
- Obsessive behaviors-compulsions
- Panic attacks
- It can help relax you and restore a sense of balance and calm
- It can reduce the intensity of your strong feelings and emotions
- It will help you sleep better
- It can give you the relief you have been looking for
- It can remove you out of your negative state and return you back to your calm natural state
- Emotional blocks
- Psychological issues
- Reduce anxiety
- Eliminates Phobia's
- Eliminate Anger
- Overcome depression
- Let go of, and heal the past
- And much more
- Lift up your shoulders
- Lift up your chin and head
- Stick out your chest
- Force your shoulders back
- Arch or stiffen your back
- Faith leads to hope
- Hope leads to optimism
- Optimism leads to action
- Action lead to results
- Random recurrences of stressful or painful memories
- Wanting to avoid any reminders of your bad experience, such as people, places, triggers and situations
- Chronic uncontrollable stress
- Anxiety, anger, frustration, irritability, depression
- Panic attacks
- OCD thoughts and behaviors
- Mood swings
- Trouble sleeping
- Nightmares and flashbacks
- Stuck in survival mode
- Guilt and self blame
- Feelings of distress and hopelessness
- Negative outlook
- Isolation, withdrawing from society
- Low self esteem and self worth
- Nightmares and waking up feeling anxious and sweaty
- Feelings of panic and anxiety
- Chronic stress
- Obsessive thoughts and behaviors
- Feelings distressed
- Stressful and physical reactions when you're reminded of the bad experience
Everytime you're bad memory causes a stressful response it takes up to 36 hours for your body to get rid of the stress hormones, this is not good for your health or well-being.
If your bad memory is constantly being played out in your mind, your body won't even get a chance to return back to its natural resting state and your body will stay out of balance most of the time.
Bad memories can demoralize your whole quality of your life, they can cause you endless stress, frustration and anxiety, and even lead to depression or alcohol and substance abuse.
Trying to bury your emotional traumas and wounds with alcohol or substance abuse, or trying to occupy your mind with other distraction methods, is not the answer and it can make matters worse.
Alcohol and drugs may temporarily alleviate your emotional hurt and torment, but as soon as their effect wears off, the pain will resurface.
Alcohol, smoking and drugs are all stimulants, and although they may initially relax you, when their effect wears off, you will feel more stressed and pumped up.
At the moment your bad memory has all the power over you, but it does not have to be that way once you strip away all the strong emotional attachment.
You should not be constantly punished and tormented by an unpleasant experience that happened in the past, which was not your fault.
It is a sad fact of life that very often the victim or the innocent one is left to suffer the most, usually in silence.
What you may not realize is that you have the power and control to erase your bad memory if you decide to do so.
When you get stuck in a cycle and pattern of stress and intrusive thoughts, the high levels of stress can put a strain on your adrenaline glands, and because you get stuck in a state of high levels of stress.
This can then this can have a knock on effect, which can result in other emotional issues like anxiety, anger issues
Your emotional brain is more powerful than your rational brain
Your nervous system cannot tell the difference between the images and pictures that are taking place in our mind and a real threatening or traumatic event.
Therefore, the internal images of your mind can change your body physiology and throw your physiology out of balance.
Then it can feel very
The emotional part of your brain that processes emotions, which is involuntary, will automatically react with fear if it perceives what it thinks is a threat or if it thinks, something is causing you pain.
The trouble with this inbuilt survival mechanism is, it can get stuck in a vicious loop and cycle and it can get it wrong.
This is true in the case of bad memories, because your stress response is being activated because it senses a threat, even though the bad situation is well in the past.
The reason why it is happening is because, the human brain is divided into two parts, the rational mind and the emotional mind.
The rational mind controls about 90% our decisions, but when the emotional mind which is far more powerful and it is the part of our brain that controls our fear and fight or flight responses takes over, it will overpower the rational mind causing our emotional impulses to influence us.
The emotional mind, which uses strong and powerful emotions and activates the fight or flight responses, operates at very fast speeds.
The emotional mind, will send messages to the body to release adrenaline and the stress hormone cortisol into the body, to quickly prime our body with a big boost of energy so we can take action against the perceived threat, which usually, no longer exist.
The rational mind takes longer to process information, therefore the emotional mind wins everytime.
Therefore, until you break this fear circuit and response, your emotional mind will carry on triggering the stress and fear response to those internal images that are being flashed in your mind or those external triggers.
There are ways to help you to control and your panic and stressful responses, you can imagine yourself on a tropical beach and engage all your senses, at the onset of any stress or fear.
If you have been suffering with post traumatic stress, then it can deplete your body and brain of the natural nutrients that it requires to keep your brain and body in balance and working efficiently.
A deficiency in the key important nutrients has been associated with depression, anxiety and mood swings.
Long periods of stress and anxiety can deplete your body of all its natural vitamins and nutrients that it requires to keep your mind and body in its peak and most optimum balance and performance efficiency.
A balanced diet of healthy foods rich in nutrients, vitamins and minerals can help to relax you, improve your mood and help you feel less anxious.
It may pay you to consult your doctor or nutritionist to determine your nutritional needs and daily dosage requirements.
Magnesium is one of the most powerful nutrients that can help reduce stress and anxiety, this key mineral is well known for its natural power to calm you.
Other studies have shown that there is a link between moods and a deficiency in the B vitamin range, again if you're thinking about taking supplements, it may pay you to consult with your doctor or dietician about the correct daily dosage
Vitamin D has also been linked with being able to help reduce stress and anxiety.
You become more afraid
"The biggest fear people have is the fear of fear itself, so in time you learn to become afraid of your anxious thoughts, bad memories and the sensations that are associated with fear.
Tense muscles or the physical and chemical sensations that are linked with stress will switch your mind over into your negative bad memory files and data and all your focus will go in
Your negative files are the place where all the negative data for your past bad experiences are recorded and filed.
When you have a bad experience or negative memory your amygdala's which controls your emotions and is in charge of the activation of your fight or flight response records and logs the memory and the associated emotions and feelings you experienced at the time.
This will include, the time, the place and all the emotional pain that you experienced at the time of the traumatic event.
The problem is, your amygdala's never forgets anything that has happened to you, and it will keep returning to and it will keep on reacting with negative responses, especially when the memory is still classified as current ad emotionally active.
This means every time you come face to face again with the thing or situation or a similar type of situation again your amygdala will automatically trigger your fight or flight response. Your amygdala's will also fire off the fight or flight response to emotionally charged memories.
The problem being, with most people's fears there is rarely any outside dangers, as far as your mind and your senses are concerned, they think they have detected what they think could be a real treat.
What is really happening is, your anxiety is tricking you into believing you need to do something to prevent something bad from happening.
Basically, you are being fooled into reacting with fear and believing you need to take some form of avoidance measure or preventive action to what are nothing more than illusions of the mind.
The new enemy, then, comes from within, this means your body and mind will start to respond to all those what if scenarios, your fearful thoughts or your past traumas and bad experiences.
Because your amygdala's never forgets an emotional experience this same process gets repeated over and over again until you break the cycle. Our past negative experiences create our insecurities for the future.
You can put it another way, if you have any old photo's on your camera which you don't like perhaps say they hold sad and negative memories for you which evoke negative or hurtful emotions you would delete them from your camera.
If you keep on looking at the photo you will keep feeling the emotion. All of our memories have an energy attached to them, good memories have a neutral or positive energy while bad memories have a negative energy associated with them.
Because bad memories and traumatic experiences operate on a subconscious level the pain, hurt and flashbacks are being driven by emotions and feelings, therefore you cannot use words or think them away.
It is all the emotional and physical attachment that is keeping the memory active and current, if you want to be free of all the hurt and pain of the bad experience, then you need to disassociate and desensitize the emotional arousal from the bad experience.