Change Your Beliefs And Change Your Life
More and more people are starting to awaken up to the idea that they can have a better life and they have the power to create their own future and take full control of their lives.
But before you can become a better more successful you and before you can change for the better and obtain all the things that you deep down desire and deserve then you have to first have to do one thing.
The one big thing that you must do and the first step to change is you will need to go inside and and change your self limiting and negative limiting beliefs.
We are all controlled and we all live our lives by our own personal beliefs systems. If your not living your life the full and getting the result you want then the chances are that you have some unhelpful subconscious beliefs that are holding you back and keeping you small.
We have no control of our early childhood beliefs
When you were young you probably dreamed about being famous, successful maybe a sports or film start or something else good but then has you moved into adulthood you probably lost sight of your dreams as you took on other people's beliefs only to realize years later that you had it right as a child
From a very early age you have been conditioned to believe and accept certain thing, idea's and opinions. This starts in our very early childhood and continues throughout the rest of our lives.
Beliefs get passed on down through the generations some of them are good and helpful but some are out dated whilst others keep us small and stuck.
We form our beliefs systems from the people around us, through our society conditioning and through our own experiences.
At a very early age we pick up most of our beliefs from our parents and families. This is great if you come from a happy, wealthy or successful family background but for the majority of people this is not always the case.
As a young child you absorb all what your told like a sponge and you have no idea whether what your being told is true and helpful to you and you do not have the awareness or the thinking power to question it or challenge it so you just accept it as being true.
You come into this world with a clean slate and your totally reliant on others to create your belief systems, therefore you have no control of the information your fed. The downside to this is, the information your fed will have total control of you and your life.
Most of people's beliefs are formed at an early age and they remain with them throughout their whole lives. This is fine if they are positive and supporting beliefs but if they are not serving you well then they need replacing.
The world around us, the situations and circumstances that we find ourselves in tends to form our belief systems when the truth is and what should be happening is our belief systems should be shaping our reality and we should be changing the outside from within.
The power of your beliefs
What you have come to believe about you and your life up until now you will take as being true and it the result of your past believes is what has created you and what you are today.
Have you ever wondered why some people go onto do, become and achieve great things whilst others just seem to stumble and struggle their way through life.
We are all so much more capable than we think and we all have limitless amounts of untapped potential, the only thing that blocks our path to greatness and genius is our own limiting belief systems.
If you have been talking yourself down for years or if your beliefs have kept you small then it's time you began to replace them so you can unleash your real true potential.
At some point in every bodies life it starts to dawn on you that there is more to life than what you have been living.
If were not careful we can just go through life following the same old patterns and daily rituals and routines where nothing really ever changes.
On top of this many people are at war with their thoughts, feelings and emotions and the stresses and strains of daily life. These negative and stressful states will block off your creativity and your ability to perform at your peak performance level.
When your stuck in a negative state your mind will be more focused on survival rather than on creativity and enjoyment. When you're experiencing negative emotions then your belief and thought patterns will tend to match your negative state of being.
Other times we just go with the majority because we afraid to stand out from what we perceive to be the norm, that's fine if your content with what you've got but if you want more then sometimes you have to think differently and think outside of the box.
You should always be thankful for what you've go but you have not got to be satisfied. The reason why most people do the things they do and they live the life they live is down to their belief systems and conditioning.
But you can start to become more and more the creator of your own reality instead of being a victim and a prisoner of your old negative and limiting belief systems. When you start to change your inner beliefs then bit by bit you will start to change your outer experiences.
We live in a belief driven universe, our beliefs are powerful and they go onto to shape our reality. Beliefs can make you and your life good or they can torment you and keep you down and stuck.
We live our life by our beliefs and our beliefs are so powerful that they shape what we do and to a large degree what we experience, think and feel.
Your beliefs help to form your character, your personality, your self image, how you act and what you achieve and become.
Our beliefs form our opinions and contribute to the actions we take, the decisions we make and what we do or do not do. The only reason why you cannot do something is because you don't really believe you can.
Beliefs are the king as far as it comes to creating and getting what you want, you live your life by your beliefs, they define you as a person, the right supporting ones can help you move forwards in a positive direction the wrong ones will take you away from where you want to be.
Bad beliefs can destroy your chances of success and prevent you from unleashing your true potential and powers whilst the right positive beliefs can take you way beyond what you once thought was possible and what you're capable of.
Positive beliefs can help to improve your life in all area's making you more successful, more happier, more fulfilled, more empowered and more abundant.
To make the changes that you want or to have the things that you want you will first need to be aware of and examine and break down your unhelpful beliefs that are holding you back and then start to begin to change and replace them.
Change your beliefs change your life
The truth is, if you hold a belief about something you cannot change until you change the belief therefore you cannot make positive life improving changes with the same old beliefs systems that have kept you stuck, because when you keep on having the same old negative thoughts then you will continue to get the same results.
If you want to change for the better then the thoughts that your thinking, the beliefs that you have adhered to up until now and the things that your doing have to change as well.
To simple formula to a more successful life goes like this, you first have to break and replace your old negative thought patterns and perceptions as well as forming some new positive and supporting beliefs.
To take things a step further, people let their current results, past failures and mistakes to effect how they think and feel.
This will not only create more limiting beliefs, more obstacles and more negative energy, but it will also cause you to feel more frustrated and disappointment thus putting you off doing the necessary action steps that are required.
All your results in your life to date and what you have or have not accomplished are a direct result of what you have come to believe and expect on a deeper subconscious level which are based on what you believe to be true about yourself and what other people have told you.
Other factors that can stifle your success and what you attempt are, what you believe your capable of, what you believe is achievable and possible.
If you are not achieving the things you want or your life is not working out how you would like it to be, then you will probably find that it is because of the beliefs you are holding onto.
The answer to changing your life and achieving the things you want is to change your unhelpful beliefs and to begin to challenge what is possible.
This means if you want to move into your ideal life then before you go on your new exciting journey you have to be open minded to what's possible and willing to leave some of your old beliefs and thought patterns behind.
Once you change you beliefs and thoughts then your energy will shift, you will begin to feel more optimistic and empowered and it won't be long before your results and your life starts to improve for the better.
Positive beliefs will encourage you to take positive action steps they will also help bring your dreams and wants into your reality. Negative ones will influence your mind to try and prevent you from changing and becoming more successful.
Most people try to change their outer reality physically and although you can do this it is the hard way of doing things.
The far easier and better way is to change your inner reality first, this involves changing your beliefs, your attitude, what you deem to be possible and your perceptions.
Your beliefs shape you and your life
Your beliefs are the thoughts and idea's that you have that go on to define who you are as well as shaping your reality, in fact your beliefs are so powerful that they set the blue print for your life. Your current set of beliefs will determine just about everything in your life including
- Where you are at in your life at this present moment
- How successful you are and how successful your going to be in future
- What you achieve and how well you perform
- How happy you are and how you feel
- What direction your heading
What you believe about yourself and this world will be true to your reality, what this means is you have total control over your whole life and your destiny, so it's not a case of how life treats you but how make life happen for you.
Many people want to better their lives, but you cannot make positive changes with old negative beliefs. Your beliefs are a collection of thoughts that have been repeated so many times that they become a belief and what we come to accept and believe as being true, in time will come true in our world.
The good news is your beliefs are not set in stone, this means you can hack into the hardware of your mind and challenge them and even change them to your advantage.
The trouble is, we come into this world with a blank slate and as very young children we are not capable of forming our own beliefs, this means we are totally dependent on the beliefs of others.
If you have confident, happy, positive and successful parents that install positive beliefs into your highly suggestible young mind then you already have am distinct advantage over the average child.
However if you have negative parents who are maybe struggling then you may pick up many unhelpful and limiting beliefs that are not going to serve you very well at all.
As we progress through our childhood we pick up and form many more beliefs based on our experiences and our society conditioning and once we buy into them they will either have a positive or negative impact on us and our lives.
These beliefs could be about money, how intelligent you are, whether you think you're good enough or if you see yourself as confident person or not. If you form the right beliefs then you will be well on your way to a more successful and happy fulfilled life.
But if you install negative beliefs about yourself then you can go onto to live a life of worry, lack, anxiety and struggle. In your early stages of life you are totally reliant on luck and chance and you have little say about the beliefs and idea's you're fed so you have no choice of how your conditioned.
The belief is the first step to positive change
Having a positive belief is the first step before you can accomplish anything and you will struggle to make any progress in life if you don't believe in yourself to where you reach a point and feeling that you know for a fact that you will achieve what your aiming for.
Your mind will seek out beliefs and meaning from the world around you based on your previous experiences and conditioning.
Many of your negative and limiting beliefs were planted in your mind even before you were able to communicate and think properly for yourself. Other destructive beliefs were formed at an early school age before you were mindful enough to challenge them.
When you were young your brain absorbed and accepted any belief that you were exposed to good or bad. And because most people are stuck in a negative state and mindset their mind becomes more focused on survival rather than enjoyment and success.
Once those negative beliefs were planted deep rooted in your subconscious mind your brain would then use all that information it has gathered regardless whether it helped and benefited you as a guideline to set the rule book for all your future thoughts, actions, decisions and behaviours.
Basically you have taken on other people's beliefs to shape and form your future happiness and success. Sadly most people's belief are geared for failure and limitations and for many it has become a habit to anticipate being unsuccessful and things going wrong.
To move forward you need to get into the habit of anticipating success and good things because when you start to expect success it will generate positive feelings that can catapult you to make positive actions and positive results.
The wrong ones can keep you small and feeling stuck, the right ones can make you great, beliefs are the structure of our reality, without them nothing would really exist and we would never move forward.
Change your limiting beliefs
Because many of your beliefs come from your society conditioning and establishments that are not always moving with the times, this can mean they don't belong to you and if they are not helping you it's time to create better ones that will support you and your goals.
Most people rarely stop to question and challenge their beliefs or the beliefs of others so they just run with the masses and if you follow the masses you will be like the masses, where as the highly successfully people tend to question the norm and look at new possibilities and different ways of doing things.
But all is not lost, because you have the ability to swap or dismiss any beliefs that do not support you or take you to where you want to go.
Ask yourself this question. What beliefs are you holding onto that are not serving or supporting you?
What "facts or information" do you keep saying that are not really facts, but rather opinions and statements that are limiting you or holding you back?
When you hear or read something especially if it is negative, do you question it or do you just automatically accept it as being true because you totally trust or accept the source information because negative information is not necessarily right but it can have a powerful negative impact on us.
If you do start to change your beliefs then you will begin to tap into your limitless inner powers and capabilities and you will begin to take control of your life and your destiny so you can start to live your life on your terms instead of the thoughts of others.
The quickest way to change some limiting beliefs is to drop the t from I can't. You here so many people utter those self defeating words like
- I can't do that
- It's not me
- I am not very good at
- I'll never
Be mindful to all those negative self defeating statements you say to or about yourself, do not even put yourself down even in joke format.
Start to replace any negative self statements with positive statements. If your stuck in a rut and your struggling to move forwards in a positive direction or if your have self sabotaging thoughts start to override them with statements like. Things can, will and are getting better.
It can take time to change some of your old deep rooted subconscious beliefs so keep at until the new beliefs become a natural way of thinking.
What ever's making you feel bad think the opposite, what ever's holding you back think the opposite and when your having negative thoughts and thoughts of hopelessness and pessimism think the opposite.
You have to know that what you want is possible, is achievable and it can and will happen to you reach a positive state of knowing that it is inevitable before it has happened.
The secret is positive believing
Your beliefs will shape your world, but to get the life and things you want your beliefs have to be accepted without doubt and they need to be backed by positive emotions, because if you're telling yourself one thing but your coming from a negative place then nothing is going to change for you.
Lets say your affirming to yourself you're rich and your making a lot of money but you are allowing your current results to determine your feelings then this is going too form two contrasting beliefs and the beliefs that are control your energy will determine your reality.
Your new beliefs need to be matched with a positive energy of zero resistance, this can prove to be very difficult phase for many people to break free of because they allow what is to govern their emotions and their thought processes.
The simple rule is, negative thoughts and beliefs will evoke negative emotions whilst on the flip side positive thoughts will evoke positive feelings, so the key is positive believing.
If your coming from a negative state and you use affirmations or visualizing then you will be wasting your time, because it is the feelings that make the belief powerful and true. You have to feel it first before it can manifest itself into your experience, when you say affirmations you need to have a positive response the same applies with visualization.
If your trying to change your life but you self doubt or feel frustrated about not getting the results you want they that means you don't really believe in the process or yourself.
Positive feelings are an indication that you believe in what your doing and you trust with absolute certainty that what you want is coming to you, it's already done.
To demonstrate this a bit further, you can think about success all day long, day after day after day, for years even, yet you still might not become a success, because if you expect to fail, no amount of success thinking will fix it. This proves that you need positive thoughts backed by positive beliefs.
You can feel as happy and as loving as you want, but if you don't believe you'll actually have a fulfilling and satisfying life, then the chances are you won't attain that sort after satisfying and fulfilling life. If your trying to change a belief but your dominant energy is still negative then you will stay stuck where you are.
When you believe these things work, then they will make a difference, if your belief in affirmations isn't strong, then saying millions of them won't do anything for you. However, if you expect to see magic just because you utter a string of words, it may very well become your reality.
We live our life according to our beliefs, they hold the most power-fullest influence on what we can or can't do or become, in fact beliefs are so powerful they can either make you or break you.
The beliefs you start to create now will have a big impact on your future so with this in mind only create new beliefs that are going to support you and get you to where you want to be.
Definition of a belief
What are beliefs? They are a series of idea's that are formed by our past experiences, a kind of certainty and knowing without question or doubting. They are created by how we have handled situations or by other people's experiences.
Beliefs are a serious of thoughts that have been repeated enough times to form a belief, ancient cultures and even some scientists state that beliefs are the matrix of our reality.
Change your beliefs and you can influence your outer reality, our feelings help to shape and change our world. We live in a feelings and belief controlled reality, our inner world affects the outer.
The belief comes from the feelings emitted from the heart, the thoughts are in the mind and they are important to hold the idea in place, the emotion is in the body and the two merge in the heart chakra to form a feeling that is believed to be capable of changing the energy field that our reality is built upon.
The dictionary states that a belief is an acceptance that something exists or something is true, beliefs are a set of thought patterns, idea's and perceptions that have been repeated so many times they have formed a belief or a habit of the mind.
Another way of describing them is, it is when you associate two things together. To define what is a belief, it is a thought that you think in relationship with you, your environment and your world.
What you truly believe is true will manifest itself into your experience at some point. Faith is classed as a form of belief, faith is important, but faith can be hard to grasp for many people because it is something you want but it has not yet happened or been seen yet. With faith you have to believe something is going to happen with out question or doubt before it has actually happened.
From a science point of view
Ancient mystics, religious groups and scientists are now starting to think along the same lines. To demonstrate the power of belief, different scientists have performed the same experiments at different times and at different locations.
You would think they would get the same results, this however is not always the case, although they have done exactly the same experiment the results have varied.
This has shown that the result of the tests are decided to a degree by the expectations of what each scientists was expecting to find.
Quantum physicists are now telling us that, when consciousness searches with the expectation that something will be there it creates it, this means what we expect to happen and find usually does, what we think is true becomes the outcome.
Most scientists already have a preconception and idea about what they expect to find before they set about doing their experiments, This poses the question that, do we discover things or do we create them based on our preconceived beliefs and expectations of what we believe to be true or what we expect to happen.
The placebo affect
Sometimes we need something to help us to reinforce a new belief, you can change things through the power of thought alone, however most people like something to help them enforce the changes and improvements the desire. The placebo effect is probably one of the most powerful examples to prove and demonstrate the power of belief.
The placebo effect is sometimes used as a medication substitute, a definition of placebo is to insert a belief through giving them something which actually produces real biological changes in humans.
If people think that something will help them then the chances are it probably will, this demonstrates the power of the mind and faith.
Because it creates 'reality' in a sense, because what we think determines what we can and can't see or do. a person is given something like a sugar pill which as no therapeutic effect for a certain condition they have, the person however has no idea of this and they believe that the pill will help them.
As long as the patient thinks the pill is genuine then the mere belief alone that the pill will help them does work.
There comes a point when you have to switch from the believing to the knowing with certainty, because what ever you believe will determine your energy and your energy will determine what happens and what shows up for you in your life experiences.
How to change a belief
Do you trust and take everything your told to be true and set in concrete, do you believe the best is still yet to come and what do you really believe you can achieve, have and how much money to you think you can make.
When you set an intention do you allow your old beliefs to override your dreams and what you think is possible. Ask yourself this question ? Who do you allow to influence your thinking and idea's and what you can or cannot achieve.
Do you listen to people who have already succeeded in their field or achieved great things or do you pay more attention to people who have not really excelled or become successful. A lot of people follow and believe those who are not successful.
But there is usually a reason why they are not successful and pursuing their passion and that is because they have also believed and followed the masses.
Start to ask yourself? Where did your limiting beliefs come from and who created them. If you have a limiting or negative belief ask yourself is that really true and how do you know then dismiss them and replace them with beliefs of what can and will be.
Then take one of the negative beliefs you identified and write down what you’d like to believe and what will happen.
Yo can create an affirmation for yourself to support your new belief and repeat the affirmation frequently and try generate as much positive emotion with the new idea, affirm what you want as if it is already happening.
Every time you affirm and focus on what you want instead of affirming what you don't want all the time you will begin to reinforce that new belief.
Keep taking action to further enforce your new belief, read and study about people who have achieved what you want and observe and watch programs of successful people that you want to emulate and inspire to be.
The more you can engage your new belief with positive emotions and actions and behaviours the sooner you will become and live your life around that new powerful positive belief. Learn more about what you want and take action steps that will take you towards your goals and desires.
When you try to change or you set a new goal that is outside your normal comfort zone your limiting beliefs which are not true and your negative emotions will try and do everything they can to prevent you from advancing forward by attempting to keep you small and safe in the confines of your comfort zone.
If any limiting beliefs crop up, you can say they that has served me well but that is out dated, unhelpful and inaccurate and then change it to a positive based beliefs. Sew some seeds of doubt to the foundations of any unproductive beliefs.
When you start to make new formed beliefs look for any positive evidence of any times in the past when you were lucky, successful or confident to back up and reinforce the new ideas.
The best time to deal with limitations is when your already feeling good or relaxed, then change your perceptions and attitude and don't go back to your old ways of thinking.
Many programs will recommend you analyse and dig into your problems and rake up up the past to try and identify those chore limiting beliefs and bring them to surface and then try and change them, but you can skip all that process and just focus on creating new positive supporting beliefs.
Because finding a core belief is not a process of digging into the problem even deeper because that just activates more negative energy and pain.
It is far better to try to find out what's underneath your problem or what's keeping you stuck to see if you can uncover the root belief that is causing it and then replacing that belief with something positive and helpful.
Because in the end it doesn't matter whether your beliefs are right or wrong or true or false because it all boils down to the fact of. Are your beliefs taking you in the direction you want to go or are they moving you further away from your goals and the life you want and deserve to have.
If your beliefs are not helping you to move forward then you need to replace then with beliefs that will serve you well and advance you in the right direction.
What tends to happen when people try to oppose new beliefs over old limiting ones is the new belief clashes with the old belief otherwise known as a conflicting belief.
So if what your telling yourself causes negative energy and a contradictory response and more often than not the old beliefs win especially when your tying to change your reality but your current results are telling you a different story.
The key to change is through repetition, if your mind listens to one new bit of information it will not really sink in or change your subconscious programming,
When your mind hears or is fed the same information and words over and over again then in time the new information will sink in and be accepted by your subconscious mind and changes will begin to happen.
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It is no secret that Rhonda Byrne wrote one of the all-time best-selling titles, the Secret, back in 2006. This film changed many people's perceptions and gave them new found optimism and hope, but although many people applied the information too their lives most did not get the results they anticipated and there is only one reason for this.
What many people do not know, and they still do not know even today, is the real secret behind the secret and also behind just about everything else in life and the essence of what lies beneath the secret is the law-of-attraction. Most people know that. Unfortunately, the thing most people do not truly understand is the truth behind the power of believing.
There are so many people jumping on the bandwagon that the law of attraction and manifesting has been over complicated. Leading self help guru Bradley Thompson has been saying this for a long time, the secret fuel for powering attraction, manifesting, cosmic-ordering and all modern day miracles is belief.
The Belief Secret from self help street is much more than a book you read once like a novel and then put away in 'the back room' where we store all our used items. You do not do that with this book.
To create or to manifest what you want you have to believe it in your mind first, the best way to start the manifestation process is, you have to imagine it in your mind with emotion and the best way to add emotion is to have a strong belief that it's possible, achievable and inevitable.
If you see something in your mind, something you want to be, do or have, but you see it without emotion then this indicates that your belief is weak and all you have left is a dream.
To change, to get what you want you first have to believe!
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